“Much of life involves routine. If you’re still interested in each other while standing in line together at the post office, then you’ve got a good thing.” I’ve recently found myself in uncharted, unexpected territory….dating….seriously. By now, I’ve usually long since moved on (or the ‘he’ moves on just as quickly when he discovers my “old fashioned” values & Faith) , but here we are 9 months in and this man is still here. Who knew!? Just to be clear, in case his family, or mine, is reading ;), stay calm-we haven’t talked marriage, we ARE having fun getting to know each other as new creations- in the right place at the right time.
We’ve had very different lives, lots of hurts & until recently each hauled around a lot of baggage. I’ll tell you more about this and him, soon. As is God’s gracious way, the questions we wrestle with (ok, I, Shandra, tortures herself with) HE drops in our laps a few days later. Perhaps you have relational wrestlings- er- wonderings, too? “Many situations arise where the path forward isn’t clear and couples need to communicate to figure things out.” Pray together & communicate…repeat. The best advice ever. SLWH