Shandra Lee. With Heart Wide Open. A Miracle In The Making.

Life is lovely. God has shown us so many things in this relationship. Greater than we could ever have anticipated.

Amazing, wonderful right where we’re supposed to be insights. Two fighters, survivors, overcomers, realistic, compassionate, hungry for The Lord, Seekers. With much more in common than one would ever realize.


We are, as humans, all of the above mixture at any given time. Striving for the Peace and Joy that knows no understanding . Philippians 4:7

He’s hidden nothing, nor have I.

We continue choosing to show up.

The real beauty here?

We see each other as we are NOW.

 ← In Light of The Cross  yesterdays and ‘used to be’s’ evaporate.


At #TheCross
At #TheCross google image #You’veGotThis

What if you, Friend, stop comparing your partner, your spouse to the kid you used to date, or your former spouse, or some of negatives you’ve dated or your friend’s unfaithful husband? Or what if you stop putting people on pedestals ? OR stop comparing yours to the Perfect Life you’d hoped for. The PERFECT never existed..

Let others be inspired by how you allow God, The Father to perfect those imperfections. Ephesians 2:10
Let others be inspired by how you allow God, The Father to perfect those imperfections. Ephesians 2:10

In other words, somewhere between the rose-colored glasses of the ostrich effect  & the gritty grime you expect.

#Dysfunction vs #Wholeness.

What IF:

  • You see him as God does?
  • I see him the way he sees me? Through eyes of grace.
  • I do!

What IF both of you:

  • Occasionally meet in the middle? Give and take, compromise here. Step up there?
  • Stop reading the statistics and focus on God?
  • Commit to honesty, transparent love and accountability to each other, to becoming better for oneanother, our families and to GOD?
  • We have!

NEWS FLASH for that #smallbittervoice of past REJECTION:

  • Disappointment is part of Life.
  • Choose wisely.

We’ve both committed to 2015 many news- more about those, soon.

Right now ?

Embracing #TheNewManRightInFrontOfMe (yes! he has his own instagram #Hashtag) that allows God to mold, make and model him into the kind of man I want to follow.


And he embraces me, Every chance he gets.

Who knew?!

Oh right, God Knew.


You’ve got this! #YouCanDoIt 

July 2015.


You’re next~ What Changes are you making this Season for building confidence? Overflowing Joy, Hope and Happiness? We really want to know!

Shandra White Harris

If you need some suggestions or refreshers :

Receiving Love: Transform Your Relationship by Letting Yourself Be Loved  heal those wounds and let yourself be loved!

Captivating: Unveiling the Mystery of a Woman’s Soul

Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man’s Soul

On a happy, happy ‘where are they and who are they now’ note come back for p 4 soon!


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